What Men Should Do To Succeed With Women Home
 I am going to make a generalization.MEN - ego based.
It is fair to say that MEN have caused their own problems -
If MEN had allowed women to flourish and grow, then women would have been
able to express themselves freely which would have made life a whole lot easier
for everyone.
All because MEN have an ego and MEN have to control.
But it does not have to be this way - especially in this day and age.
At present, most MEN marry so their woman is now the property that they own. (I said 'most').
MEN marry to keep what they have - MEN do not walk around thinking about marriage - MEN might want a family... but that's about
ego too, about having offspring, it is not about some desperate yearning to be a husband.
Of course, in an ideal world, MEN would be balanced; they would be MANly and gentleMANly and MANageable...
MEN would know when to listen and how to listen.
MEN would know when to talk and what to say.
MEN would be giving and sharing.
MEN would be strong and flexible.
MEN would be... well, MEN.
Unfortunately, most MEN are either jocks or idiots or weaklings or psychopaths or workaholics or control freaks or fat or lazy or
generally undesirable.
MEN need to realize some things:
Being clean is desirable.
Being stylish is desirable.
Being respectful is desirable.
Being organized is desirable.
Being light-hearted is desirable.
Being communicative is desirable.
Being a true gentleMAN is desirable.
Being an overweight, sport obsessed, loud mouth is not desirable, even if you have money.
It is not difficult to wash regularly, to show some respect, to have a decent home, to use your sense of humor, to open a door and
pull out a chair.
It is not difficult to treat others how you would like to be treated, or to treat women with respect.
It is not difficult to be affectionate and loving and kind and clear-intentioned.
It is not difficult to communicate how you feel in a reasonable manner.
It is not difficult, but it is rarely done.
MEN - remember this - just because you like her does not mean that she should like you.
MEN - it is better to have less money and a great character. Money will take you only so far, character will take you further, for longer.
MEN - if you make more effort to stand out from the crowd, be different from your friends, be forthright, upfront and clear, then you will
find that women come to you and you will no longer need to chase women.
Think about what it is that women look for or want. And then be that thing.
Yes, you might have to learn patience, but it will be worth it in the end.
MEN - do not be typical. Be exceptional.
Author: Guy Blews
Guy Blews is a Relationship Expert and Certified Life Coach who offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the author of 'Marriage & How
To Avoid It', 'Realistic Relationships' and 'Less Thing$ More Love' which are all available at his website. Guy has appeared on
numerous television and radio shows in the USA and the UK as either a visionary or a pariah - now it's your turn to make an opinion
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